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Anxiety vs. Love – Part 5
Posted by: | CommentsAnxiety vs. Love
Products ———-People
Control ————-Contemplation
Experts ————-Process
Results ————-Relationships
Conformity ————-Creativity
The words on each end of this continuum, conformity – creativity, are always a tough thing for a leader. Well, perhaps I should say that that living on the love side of this continuum is difficult for managers, real leaders will find a way to lead people into creativity.
When we fall into the trap of simply managing a ministry we tend to lean toward casting a vision of conformity for those that are a part of our group. We do this out of anxiety of losing control over our situations and in turn losing control over the results that we so desperately need to see.
We need to make a shift, live out of love, and encourage the creativity that God has placed within each individual that we lead. This is a little scary at times because it can seems that there is no way to keep things “under control.” If we are really leading we will provide people with a set of boundaries that fit with the vision and mission of our ministry and then release, equip, and empower people to use their God-given creativity to move a step closer to fulfilling that vision and accomplishing that mission.
Yeah, it is much more effecient and much less messy to work within a culture of conformity, but a culture of conformity is a much less loving place to live because we are stifling the image of God within others.
Anxiety vs. Love – Part 4
Posted by: | CommentsAnxiety vs. Love
Products ———-People
Control ————-Contemplation
Experts ————-Process
Results ————-Relationships
As I reflect on what I have seen in ministry it seems to me that one of the first things to go when we start slipping into the anxiety operating system is our relationships.
When we are operating out of love, relationships are at the forefront of the action; relationships are what it is all about. However, when we fall into the trap of constantly having to track the number of relationships and our job is on the line because of those numbers it is easy and even understandable that we would slide into anxiously being focused on the results.
I don’t remember where I heard it first, it probably doesn’t matter because the person I heard it from probably stole the line from someone else anyway, but I think Jesus would be fired from most of our churches because the results just weren’t there. After all was said and done (or so the religious leaders thought) Jesus was left with no one, not one of his followers by his side. Seems to me that Jesus wasn’t all that concerned with the results what most of us would be concerned with, seems that He was more about the relationships and living out of love.
Church Online?
Posted by: | CommentsLately I’ve noticed many arguments on both sides of the online chuch debate. I was kind of ambivelent on the subject and although I still have not really made up my mind, I am starting to lean.
In reading Eugene Peterson’s The Jesus Way, I got to thinking about how the “ends,” (our goal) must have “means,” (the how) that are aligned with the end. What I mean is simply this, if we are going to follow Jesus, we need to have a congruent way of life, a “Jesusy” life. This means thatwe need to find ways of helping ourselves to live better and I really wonder if online church does that.
It seems to me that the best way that we have of learning to live better is by having people around us in our live that are there for us to help us live better. We need brothers and sisters that are willing to say the hard things at the hard times so that we can grow. Can online church really do that? Can online church help us to really live better? I’ve not totally made up my mind yet, but it seems to me that the relationships that are developed online can’t usually take us to the places that we really need to deal with in our lives.
There is no doubt that one can find great teaching and encouragement in the online world, but do we really have relationships that help us to live better?
Ways and means
Posted by: | CommentsI began reading The Jesus Way by Eugene Peterson today (3/9) during my flight from Syrscuse to Chicago on the Kindle app for my iPod (which by the way is a very fine way of reading.)
Now I am sitting on my flight from Chicago to Denver thinking about the first section that I read.
It absolutly amazes me that so much of the Christian life has become about “getting things done.”.
It seems that in our focus to get things done we look to the people who have conquered our culture so that we can learn to do the same “in the name of Jesus.” Why has this become the norm when we call ourselves Christ-followers and Jesus said that He is “the way the truth, and the life?”
More on Evangelism Today
Posted by: | CommentsCame across a livejournal post today, here is an exerpt:
I’m excited to start my college life and then my career.
I know I’m going to be happy in film once I get started.
And I lost 5 lbs. And I bought new clothes. And I’m tan.Life is good. The one bad thing that happened is someone
tried to convert me to be born again Christian and it was
really awkward. But besides that, it’s good.
Man! What went wrong here? I can almost feel what must have been an adversarial conversation with the “Christian” coming up with arguments as to why, and the writer of this either just shutting down or arguing back that her life is great just like it is.
How sad is this? Being in a relationship with someone who is sharing who they are and sharing their faith should be one of the most rewarding experiences of life, even if one chooses not to believe! Why do so many Christians assume an adversarial stance instead of a conversational stance when it comes to evangelism? Evangelism should be more like a dance than a wrestling match! A dance the other person has invited us into.
Evangelism Today
Posted by: | CommentsI am amazed at the diversity that exists in the philosophy of how we should be doing evangelism today. We can get so caught up in how we, is individuals, think we should be sharing the gospel that sometimes we forget there are others out there.
This past weekend our youth ministry took kids to an overnight event called the Syracuse Tour, it was attended by over 730 people! I am guessing that probably 650 were teenagers (80 adults). This event is the one student event that the Syracuse Area Youth Workers Network does each year and is intended to be an evangelistic event. This year the portion of the night when one of the local youth pastors gets up and speaks, explaining the gospel and giving an opportunity to respond, absolutly went against the grain of everything that I believe evangelism should be about. To me the message was full of psychological manipulation, old time sales tactics, getting students to respond to questions in an affirmative way numerous times before asking for a response to Jesus at the end. The speaker said that he hoped that the students had the “common sense” to accept Jesus as their savior.
Although I strongly disagree with how this all took place, I know that God can still work through it and that there were genuine decisions to follow Jesus on that night.
The Proactive Pacifist
Posted by: | CommentsAn OUTSTANDING podcast from the guys at The Meeting House! Check it out here. (iTunes)
If I can think of anything worth adding (doubt it) I’ll update this post.
Great Seats!
Posted by: | CommentsIt seems that somewhere along the way most of us picked up this idea that we are critical to the mission. Not sure where it came from but the truth, as I get it more and more, is that when we have the privilege of being a part of the ministry we are in the front row seats getting to watch up close and personal what God is doing in our communities. Here is the question, why do we need to keep those seats to ourselves? Why should we not let others enjoy those seats? Why do we continually fight to keep our place when we know that God has another seat for us, somewhere else?
Could the answer be that we have a skewed idea of who God really is along with a twisted idea of who we really are?
More than I thought
Posted by: | CommentsToday I was checking this out…
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the head. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Ephesians 5:22-25
In the past I had always looked at this and said to myself “that sounds good, I don’t really get it, but it sounds good.” Read More→

